Pessimism is a luxury that a Jew can
never allow himself – Golda Meir
Tragedy, unfortunately,
is part of everyone’s life. Some heartbreaking experiences are
more profound than others.
All, however, touch us in every aspect of our life.
This week’s
Parashah, Shmini, recounts a tragedy that befell Aharon, Moshe’s
brother. The story is a mingle of great joy, cloaked with holiness but at the
same time eclipsed and shrouded with loss and grief.
It is the first of the month of Nissan and the
dawning of a new day. Moshe and Bnei Yisrael are preparing to mark a great
milestone in our history. After seven days of preparations and training, Aharon and his sons are ready to receive the
scepter of Priesthood, and the Mishkan (Tabernacle) is ready to be inaugurated.
On the Eight
day (Shmini) as Bnei Yisrael are gathering for the long-awaited ceremony,
Moshe tells them, “For today, the Lord will appear to you” (Vayikra 9:4). He
invites Aharon and his sons to offer a sacrifice to G-d. Shortly thereafter, the
celebrations reach a climax with the spectacular appearance of the glory of G-d
as fire came forth “from before the Lord and consumed upon the altar the burnt
offering and the fat; and when all the people saw it, they shouted, and fell on
their faces (Vayikra 9:24).
This spectacle
full of reverence, bursting with holiness and ecstasy turns, in a flash, into a
catastrophe. Without any warning “there came forth fire from before the Lord,
and devoured” Avihu and Nadav, the sons of Aharon (10:2). G-d, it turns out,
thy “offered unauthorized fire before the Lord, contrary to His demand” (10:1).
How does one
respond to such a tragedy?
Moshe speaks
first. “This is what the Lord spoke of when he said: ‘Among those who approach
me, I will be proved holy; in sight of all the people I will be honoured’”
(10:3). Rashi bases his interpretation of this verse on Midrash.
According to him, “Moshe says to Aharon, ‘Aharon, my brother, I knew that the Mishkan
will be sanctified by the presence of those who are close to G-d. I assumed
that he meant either you or me; now I see that they (Nadav and Avihu) are
greater than me and you.” In other words, the holier a person is, the greater
are G-d’s exigencies of him.
Aharon
remains silent. He is not complaining. He is not lamenting his bad fortune. His
silence, in my view, reflects inner strength and the ability to confront
difficult and painful realities.
Moshe moves
on. He orders the removal of the bodies and briefs Aharon and his remaining sons
about the laws of mourning. He also adds directives aimed at preventing the recurrence
of such incidents and moves on to check if the sacrifices scheduled for that
day were made.
Moshe turns
to Aharon and tells him not to display publicly his mourning for fear that G-d may
become angry with the entire community. “Know well,” he adds, “that your brethren,
the entire House of Yisrael, shall bewail the burning that G-d has rekindled.
Do not leave this place in the sanctuary,” he advises him, “for G-d’s anointing
oil is upon you” (10:6-7). Aharon accepts Moshe’s words. His only concern, so
it seems from verse 19, is that his silence not be interpreted as his
possessing inhumane traits.
The psychological
aspect of the exchanges between Moshe and Aharon, in the aftermath of the
tragedy, is fascinating. In the first, Moshe, in his strong desire to console
his brother who has just lost two sons, tells him that G-d “will display” His “holiness
through those who come near” Him.
The second exchange
is when Moshe directs the bereaved Aharon to remain in the Mishkan and
continue to perform the duties of his role as Kohen Gadol (High Priest).
One may understand Moshe’s words to mean that even though he feels Aharon’s
pain, the latter is no longer a private person. On this critical day, the people
need him to remain strong, guide them and conform to the role that he has been anointed
to fulfill. Aharon, so it seems, is aware of the enormity of his position and
despite his pain and anguish accepts it and resumes his duties, as prescribed
by the protocol.
The intricacy
of the account of this discourse captures, in my view, the essence of Jewish survival
through our sanguineous history. Despite ongoing suffering, losses and death
which have been the lot of our Jewish People, our desire to move on has never
been extinguished. We have simply refused to give up. We could not afford to
give up. The determination to ignite Hope at our darkest moments has been a
beacon along the path of our historical timeline. It is the secret of our
Jewish survival.
One modern
day example which comes to mind and parallels the account of Aharon’s
misfortune is the sad experience which befell the late general Raful (Refael
Eitan) who was the IDF Chief of Staff, between the years 1978-1983. He was also
very instrumental in planning and executing “Operation Opera,” the bombing of
the Iraqi nuclear power plant in June 1981.
A month prior to the operation, his son Yoram, an IAF pilot was involved in a training accident. Raful was in Yerushalayim, in a government meeting, when it happened. Upon receiving the news, Raful left the meeting. He did not utter a word, just like Aharon in this week’s Parashah. His widow, Miriam, shared, years later, that Raful picked her from her office soon after he heard about the catastrophe but did not mention it until they reached their home. General Amos Yadlin, a pilot who partook in that operation, visited Raful’s home during the Shiv’a. Just before Yadlin was about to leave, Raful caught him and said, “Don’t think that just because I am sitting Shiv’a, I will not come to the briefing.”
Like Aharon, Raful understood that he was not a private person and could not let his personal tragedy interfere with the important task that had been delegated to him. Yisrael needed him and counted on him just as Am Yisrael needed and counted on Aharon at the inauguration of the Mishkan. They were both entrusted and staunchly adhered to guiding and protecting Am Yisrael and the Jewish People as well as validating and keeping the spirit of Hope for a safer and better future for them.
Shabbat Shalom